Firstly, things between Sephiroth and I-- isn't really a secret, but it is a private matter. More or less. Which has been said, apparently.

However, I will say it's difficult to hit a "snag" in an open, adult relationship.

As for the rest, it's really of very little value to me personally. I've much better things to do with my time than participate in the spread of gossip. I'm sure you do too, whoever you are.