http://notvitiligo.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] queenofheartsrp2011-05-13 10:52 am
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Question:
Assume a situation where you need to practice something.
You have a friend that has offered to help you.
This friend would be an excellent help.
But the practice would involve being more open with close to exposed than you are comfortable with.
What would you do?
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[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I do not really know but it would be really embarrassing and awkward and I do not want that.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I've heard it said that embarassment builds character.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
It might also mess up my friendship.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, dear. I suppose friendship is quite important.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
It is very important to me.

I would really like to have her help and I do not want to disappoint her but I am not sure I can do it.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, either you can do it, or you can't do it.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. I am trying to decide so I wanted to see if there was any advice.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I don't think any of us know you better than you know yourself.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I just want to make sure I am not being an idiot.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I don't think either of those choices would make you an idiot.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 06:51 pm (UTC)(link)
If I am deciding one way and most people say to do the other way, then I am probably being an idiot. There are exceptions but I do not think they would apply in this case.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, that's no way to think! If you only do what other people do, you'll never have much fun in life.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I do not only do that but I do think that usually there is a reason for most people doing something.

[identity profile] hungryprincess.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
There would be a reason for you to pick either option, wouldn't there be? So you're not doing any worse, so long as you believe you're doing the right thing.

[identity profile] notvitiligo.livejournal.com 2011-05-13 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
It would be hard to know what the right thing is without an idea of what to expect.
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